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Julie and Max Silbermann riding in an oxcart in the Cambodian countryside.

Julie and Max Silbermann riding in an oxcart to a restaurant in the Cambodian countryside.

Vietnam and Cambodia were bucket list trips for us all! We were three couples traveling through Vietnam and Cambodia for almost 3 weeks. Sandy, Ethan, and Corban put together the trip of a lifetime. From “hosts” that were so incredibly knowledgeable (and patient with all our questions) to drivers that safely navigated the crazy streets of Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon), we were taken care of perfectly! Our itinerary was set way in advance of our departure and then, when we were in Ha Long Bay, an unexpected typhoon blew in from the Philippines and flooded Central Vietnam making our stops in Hue, Hoi An, and DaNang impossible. The team worked tirelessly to reroute us to Southern Vietnam and an amazing resort in Can Tho! They not only had us covered, but they created a new, exciting part to our itinerary in just a day! That’s when travel specialists really show their stuff—when they can take a disaster and turn it around!

In Hanoi we learned all about the “American War of Aggression,” visited Ho Chi Minh’s Mausoleum, had lunch with a local family (and discovered how to make rice wine), had an impromptu karaoke session with another family, enjoyed a wonderful food tour, toured the Chi Chu tunnels (the persistent light rain definitely added to this experience), and so much more (see photo with our new friends). The floating markets were a treat and our night on a beautiful boat in Ha Long Bay was wonderful. Our host in Ho Chi Minh City was so knowledgeable and gave us a different perspective from someone from the Northern part of Vietnam. Our Vespa food tour was something we will never forget—the food was great (“We Love Pho!”); the driving was crazy! The real surprise of our time in Vietnam was how incredibly friendly ALL of the people were who we came across.

Then onto Cambodia where we stayed in the most beautiful hotel (think White Lotus) and had another amazing guide who taught us all about the complicated history of Cambodia. We visited Angkor Wat (breathtaking) and visited several other temples. We were privileged to spend time with local monks and participated in two ceremonies including morning meditation (at 4:45 am!) A highlight was a paddleboat trip across a river followed by an oxcart ride into the countryside, and then a gourmet dinner at a beautiful restaurant. In contrast, APOPO, where they train African Giant Pouched Rats to detect landmines and unexploded ordnances and then take them into the countryside to actually clear landmines, was an unbelievable learning experience.

Our trip was amazing and truly a once-in-a-lifetime adventure! Thank you so much to our planners!

Max Silbermann and friends at At the Vietnam Military History Museum in Hanoi.

At the Vietnam Military History Museum in Hanoi, traveler Nancy Dinar and friends met uniformed veterans.

VIETNAM/CAMBODIA — OCTOBER 24-NOVEMBER 8, 2025
First of all, let me thank my travel planners for all the hard work they put into making our trip such a wonderful adventure. We all know how difficult the situation can become when Mother Nature interferes with all your well-oiled plans. Obviously, we were disappointed not to see Hue, My Son, and Hoi An but feel lucky that we weren’t there when the floods hit. The substitute plans that the team was able to provide for us gave us the opportunity to see things we would have missed otherwise.

Although we had heard the Cu Chi Tunnels were touristy, I was glad we ended up seeing them. Going first thing in the morning, before the bus loads arrived, was key to getting the feeling of what jungle fighting was about. Also, getting to see the Ho Chi Minh mausoleum was a plus, not so much for seeing the body but for seeing how the people revere him.

I loved that our itinerary was balanced among museum visits, food tasting, and the opportunities to meet the people and learn about the cultures. One of the highlights for me was totally unscripted: We were returning from Mr. Kiet’s Ancient House (and an absolutely amazing meal) when we heard music coming from a village house. After our host, Thuy, asked the family if we could see their home, we were greeted by this warm, friendly family, who was enjoying their karaoke and encouraged us to participate. They offered us beer and fruit and we danced with them as they played their karaoke machine. It was a chance to meet and chat (through Thuy and with lots of gestures) and see what life is like.

Another chance meeting, this one at the Vietnam Military History Museum in Hanoi, was where we met two men, wearing their uniforms, who had fought in the war. One of them was wearing a 40-year medal as a member of the Communist Party. They were warm and welcoming and wanted to take photos with us. They were charming.

I also loved our two visits to the Buddhist temples in Cambodia. Hearing the monks chant and allowing us to be part of the morning meditation was especially meaningful.

Although the Ethnology Museum was highly recommended, I found it to be information overload and I had trouble keeping the many ethnic groups straight. I would suggest that future visitors to that museum do a little research before they go.

There were so many fantastic adventures and wonderful learning opportunities in this trip that I could go on and on; but, I would be remiss if I did not rave about each of our hosts and drivers. They were all extremely knowledgeable and we all began to feel like each of them was “family” because of their warmth and caring. They were flexible about our scheduling and listened to what we wanted to do. Our drivers navigated the crazy traffic like pros and got us where we needed to go safely and on time. When my back difficulty flared up, our host “Mike” went out of his way to help me find an acupuncturist and then get me there to have treatments, which truly helped alleviate my pain and allowed me to enjoy the rest of our vacation. Now I have to spend the next month or so pouring over the 2,000 photos I managed to shoot.

Again, let me commend the team for their expertise and for their ability to seamlessly reorganize our trip when Mother Nature threw us such a monkey wrench.

Round boats on a beach in Vietnam.

Traveler Robyn Needham experienced a guided ride on one of the round boats common among fishermen.

Vietnam is the land of opportunity today and a place we highly recommend you visit. It had been on our bucket list for a number of years and we spent 17 days, exploring from the North to the South. The most enjoyable part of the trip was from Hanoi to Ho Chi Minh City—the Vietnamese people are welcoming, friendly and fantastic to be around. We quickly learned that Vietnamese culture is centered around family and families come together every day to share the fantastic Vietnamese food.

Our trip was broken into three phases—North, Central and South Vietnam. In each section, we had a tour guide and driver. All of the guides were consistently excellent, knowledgeable of their areas and engaging in conversation. They each planned a fantastic itinerary each day, but were flexible to customize to our requests. They were also extremely attentive to our comforts and safety throughout the 17 days.

We began our journey first in Hanoi with our guide Mike. We toured the bustling city from the historic Hanoi Hilton (where American POWs were kept during the war) to Buddhist Temples, to a History Museum and finally the food market streets, which we quickly learned are a daily trek for Vietnamese families to source their fresh local food. Streets are busy with cars and motor bikes. It looks chaotic upon first impression, but the locals are very adept at navigating through the traffic safely. We would not recommend trying to do that as a tourist, but our guides taught us how to safely cross the streets in a manner where drivers were aware of our presence.

The next day we took a day trip outside Hanoi to Hoa Lu, the ancient capital of Vietnam, which is located in the Red River Delta. We enjoyed a boat ride through the beautiful lake and caves in this mountainous area. The next day we departed Hanoi and traveled by car to Ha Long Bay, a UNESCO World Heritage site, and spent two nights on a 4-cabin ship sailing amazing areas of the bay. The first night the ship was all to ourselves (of course we were pampered by the amazing crew) before five others joined the second day. Highlights of our experience here was hiking to caves in this limestone cliff region (thousands of limestone rock islands jut out of the bay), kayaking through an operating fishing village where houses are on the water, and kayaking to a secluded bay to swim without any crowds. And of course the food was amazing—seafood to Pho with an abundance of fresh vegetables and fruits.

Next was a flight to Central Vietnam—to the imperial city of Hue where we met Ngoc. This is a vibrant city of about 1 million, but a big drop in population from the 12 million in Hanoi. Our first day in Hue, we experienced torrential rains throughout the day from an offshore Typhoon. But the rain did not deter our explorations. In Hue, we had unique opportunities to visit two family homes. The first was the home of a professional calligrapher. Such an amazing man of 72 years, who demonstrated his musical talents playing local flutes and then we all participated in practicing calligraphy. The second home is where we ate a traditional local lunch. The father was our host and most gracious. We practiced learning Vietnamese as we enjoyed an amazing meal and homemade rice wine (don’t think Sake, but rather more like vodka). We also visited the ancient King’s Palace, Temples, and cooked our own lunch in a cooking class.

We were then off to Hoi An and Da Nang. Both full of history and amazing experiences, including seeing Viet Cong caves in Da Nang, R&R Beach, the ancient walking streets of Hoi An, Temples, and an incredible day visiting a local organic farming village via bikes. They had us ride a water buffalo, use their traditional farming implements to plant and water, and we learned the incredible resourcefulness of the Vietnamese people to use natural plants to fertilize their crops instead of chemicals and pesticides—truly organic. We then transferred to a boat and toured the rivers, took a ride on a “round boat” fisherman still use. The expert guides could get that round boat rotating at such a rate I am still dizzy thinking about it—such fun. We also visited a fishing village and raised the fishing nets and threw casting nets to truly experience their daily lives. This incredible day all culminated in a fantastic lunch on the boat in the mouth of the river.

The last leg of the trip was to Ho Chi Minh City (formerly named and often still called Saigon), with our guide Sue Ann. A vibrant city of 14 million plus. Very cosmopolitan with many modern tall skyscrapers, but also old historical buildings in this historic city. Highlights included two boat trips up and down the Saigon River—the first to Cucci Tunnels, which are preserved Viet Cong tunnels about an hour outside Saigon. Truly fascinating. The second was down river to the Mekong Delta area to a local village where we rode bikes to a Temple, shared rice wine at the home of a local producer, and finally ate lunch in a local home. In Saigon, we visited the former President’s Palace, a Vietnam War Museum and ended our last night on a 4-hour tour of the city on the back of Vespa’s driven by local experts. The Vespa tour included stops for coffee, appetizers, dinner, a music bar, and dessert.

We are still excited just rehashing our trip. I would be remiss if I didn’t talk a little about the experience from a Vietnam war perspective. From North to South, the war was certainly a part of our trip and the history that we learned from the Vietnamese perspective. Not once did we feel any hatred nor animosity towards us. We were presented a perspective that was refreshing to learn—of the impacts to the Vietnamese people. Our guides were either young at the end of the war or born in the early years after and we were able to hear the perspective and impact of the aftermath from their experiences. I thought the information we heard, the war museum presentation in Saigon was very factual and balanced. I learned much from a different perspective that has enriched my perspectives, and I will be forever grateful.

Lastly, the weather was better than expected from a rain perspective. We had the impression it would be constant rain. It wasn’t. The worst was from an offshore Typhoon and that didn’t stop us from doing things. It was in the 90’s each day and it is very humid, but the guides were very attentive to hydrating us and cooling us down at needed intervals.

Our primary goal in travel is to meet locals, learn their culture, values and experience a little of how they live. And we accomplished that in Vietnam and are forever changed for the positive from this amazing trip.

Milinda Martin riding a cart pulled by a water buffalo, with a farmer in Siem Reap.

Traveler Milinda Martin rides with a farmer in Siem Reap, where water buffalo are used as draft animals.

Ethan and his colleague Corban were excellent partners for my 24-day trip through Southeast Asia. I spent the bulk of my time in Vietnam, a country so rich in culture, history, culinary talents, and kindness. As an independent traveler, the team really delivered in providing outstanding guides who are now new friends. I went into their homes, met their families, and saw parts of their hometowns that are far off the tourist track. My uncle served and died in Vietnam in 1968 and I wanted to really understand the war with far greater context. Tu, my guide in Central Vietnam, introduced me to many locals who remembered the Tet Offensive, whose relatives served on both sides of the civil war, and who spoke of the good things that came out of that terrible time.

I loved Hanoi as seen through the eyes of my guide Long, and enjoyed Ho Chi Minh city with my new friend Thuy, including riding around on the back of her motorbike. I had a blissful time in Lan Ha Bay, the more secluded part of HaLong Bay, including kayaking, caving, and hiking, as well as village tours. I visited two national parks for trekking, and spent a few relaxing days at the beautiful Zannier Bai San Ho resort. On a boat near Hoi An, Vietnam, we cruised through the Vinh Cua Dai delta meeting fishermen and going around the palm farms (used to harvest palm sugar) and tried out what are called coconut boats (the round rowboat). Then, as the day ended, the crew all changed into traditional costumes and sang/danced prior to dinner.

My last 8 days were split between Siem Reap, Cambodia and Luang Prabang, Laos, both with stellar guides. Si Len in Cambodia was charming and took me to many local villages to meet people and learn about their lives. We wove baskets and met textile weavers and visited farms. In Laos, Paan took me to her home to meet all of her relatives and prepare dinner plus meals for the monks at the local temple. We gave alms one morning, and visited an outstanding elephant sanctuary.

Throughout the trip I stayed at lovely hotels, ate far too much delicious food, and was shuttled in a variety of transport vehicles, all adding to the adventure. My favorite part of travel, aside from learning the history, is connecting with locals, and that really is the difference that Ethan’s company and Wendy Perrin provide. Whether it’s an outstanding guide who shares their life with you, or walking you through a village so you can meet a local farmer and spend time plowing their field with them (as I did outside of Hoi An), these are the memories that stay with you for a lifetime.

One interesting element of working with Ethan and his colleagues is their flexibility. In each city, the guide is really a host, and all days are up for grabs. You get to design your stay on the spot, as you see fit. I loved being able to move things around between days if the humidity was too high or rain was due. Traveling like this is so much richer than an organized tour. And even richer than traveling solo because you truly meet people who live there, not just other tourists.

Lastly, as a note, I traveled in May and June, which is NOT the tourist season in SE Asia. We discussed, in advance, what this would mean in terms of the weather (hot, humid, rainy), but also the benefits of seeing places without a throng of tourists. For UNESCO World Heritage Sites like Angkor Wat, being there, with just you and your guide, is magical. And the welcome from locals is all the warmer because you are the only tourist they’ve seen that week. My bonus for enduring the heat: lunch with Corban from Ethan’s company in Siem Reap! Yes, he just happened to be there at the same time. Lucky me!

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